笑忘書

似乎已經有一段時間，沒有分享過歌詞。剛剛收到你的電郵，讀完電郵內容以後，很想把這歌詞送給你。過去的事雖然難過，但已經隨着時間越走越遠；憂傷的日子總要結束，因為美麗的回憶足以滋潤往後更美好的日子。希望你(和到訪過這裡的每一個人)一切安好！
笑忘書(林若寧)
要背負個包袱，再跳落大峽谷，煩惱用個大網將你捕捉，還是你拋不開拘束?
你昨夜發的夢，到這夜已告終；沉下去，頭上散落雨點沒有彩虹，
你還在抱著記憶就似塊石頭很重!

得到同樣快樂，彼此亦有沮喪，童話書從成長中難免要學會失望；
經過同樣上落，彼此墮進灰網，沉溺、煩擾、磨折，何苦多講?

我快樂到孤獨，我缺乏到滿足，遊戲就算愉快不會幸福，人大了開心都想哭!
我每日要生活，我每日要鬥苦，捱下去連上帝亦也許沒法攙扶，
我前路有右與左，面對抉擇難兼顧!

擁有同樣寄望，彼此亦有苦況，棉花糖從成長中曾送你愉快天堂；
經過同樣跌盪，可會學會釋放，童話、情書、遺書，尋找答案!
曾經...曾經...回憶當天三歲的波板糖

愛的方程式?

愛可能是．．．
愛是...在向對方發怒之前，從1數到1000。
愛是...安靜聆聽對方的心情。
愛是...接納對方，也接納自己。
愛是...體諒對方的感受。
愛是...與她分享今天發生的趣事。
愛是...陪她他與家人一起吃飯。
愛是...發生衝突的時候，願意坦承的溝通。
愛是...時時刻刻記得她是上帝所創獨一無二的寶貝。
愛是...忘記她無心的過錯。
愛是...知道她的缺點，並真心包容。
愛是...了解她他的需要。
愛是...恆久忍耐，不是無奈，遇到問題不要隱忍逃避。
愛是...和她一起成長。
愛是...和她培養相同的興趣。
愛是...對她誠實。
愛是...願意跳脫習慣，改變自己。
愛是...甜言蜜語背後熱情澎湃的心。
愛是...一種感覺、更是個決定。
愛是...不輕易放棄。
愛是...與她一同為有意義的生命努力。

在我而言，愛是能夠找到那位他願意陪我一起成長、分享喜憂、細味人生
那麼，你又會否和我一樣？



"We come to love not by finding a perfect person but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."
(by Sam Keen - LOVE)

只要信，才有愛

我一直相信人與人之間，可藏着一種永恆的愛，所以每當朋友決定與那個「他/她」(Mr/ Miss Right)廝守一生的時候，我都會興奮不已。但是近日在友人們當中發生了幾件小事，卻為我帶來了一些震撼，對恆久愛的定義有所動搖。究竟我們當中有沒有恆的愛呢？其實，每一個人是沒否不能一生中只愛那個「他/她」？

我相信人是容易動情的，也明白未到人生該走完的路時，永不知道誰人才是那個「他/她」；但是，現今世代似乎愛得快，抽身離開得更快！那麼，人們追逐的又是甚麼？

真實而恆久的愛究竟有沒有存在？找一個可以倚偎一生的肩膀又是否一件奢侈的事情呢？但是我仍然相信人與人之間是存在着童話的，因為「只要信，才有愛」。希望你和我也可以遇見那個「他/她」!

Maybe kissing is sort of like nature's coffee.
(by Scott Westerfeld, Midnighters: Blue Noon, 2005 - LOVE)

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime

This is the meaningful passage that i received from one of my friend. I would love to share with you. I think that you may get the answers of some questions. At least, it answered most of my questions in my mind.

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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or whether you are a lifetime.

我最愛的季節

在生命中，我們經歷一個又一個的寒暑；但是你又有沒有因為不同的季節而偶爾停下來欣賞一下它們為四周帶來的驚喜﹖

春天時候總寄掛秋天的凄美、夏季時又愛嚴冬的冷清；秋季時份又眷戀春天的暮春氣息、到了冬天又渴望炎夏的陽光。人總是愛追逐一些改變不了的事實。雖然我也是其中一員，但我也明白季節不會因為我而改變。於是，好幾年以前，我開始學習放慢腳步，好好享受每個季節所帶給我的驚喜和感覺。

我最愛的季節是一年最短暫的秋季，早上的涼風像要喚醒各人要好好愛惜生命和工作似的；晚上的秋色總教人懷緬昔日的片段。當然，我愛秋天的天氣以外，我還愛秋天的感覺 - 一種奇妙的感覺，美麗與淒清交集、浪漫與思念的感動...

你呢﹖你愛的又是那一個季節﹖
無論你愛那一個季節，希望你同時也懂得每一個季節給予你人生的每一份驚喜吧!

It was one of those perfect English autumnal days which occur more frequently in memory than in life.

(by P.D. James - Autumn)